Discovering my boyfriend's secret: Hooking Up
- Discovering my boyfriend's secret: Hooking Up
- After finding out my boyfriend's secret activities of contacting other women for dating and hooking up, I decided to stay and work it out, but our relationship is still far from being stable.
- Understanding the meaning of 'hooking up' and 'raw' in the context of my relationship with my boyfriend.
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Next month is the one-year anniversary for my boyfriend and me. Right before Thanksgiving I discovered he was contacting other women, through emails, photos and profiles for dating and hooking up. He said he was reaching out to other women because he wanted to do things he didn't think I'd be into so rather than talk to me about it he outsourced his intimacy. I decided to stay and try to work it out. The last few weeks have been raw and intense. I can see he is trying and feels remorseful, but we are far from out of the woods. ここでのhooking upとrawはどのような意味でしょうか？よろしくお願いします
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＞ここでのhooking upとrawはどのような意味でしょうか？ ⇒以下のとおりです。 ☆hooking up：「親しくなる、関係を持つ」。 あからさまに言えば、「（デートに誘って、その後で）肉体関係を持つ」という意味でしょう。 ☆raw：「露骨な、生々しい」。 weeksが主語のように見えますが、これを時の副詞句と考えて、「ここ数週間は、露骨で激烈なことがありました」のように訳せると思います。
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