Should I wait to lose weight before dating?
- I am 31 and recently out of a 12-year relationship and three-year marriage. I am at a loss and want to find someone to have a family with. Should I wait until I lose weight or can I date now?
- I spent all of my 20s in a relationship that didn't work out. I am clinically obese but have been told that I am attractive and carry it well. Should I wait until I lose the approximately 30 pounds that I need to lose to be at a normal weight, or can I realistically date now?
- I chat with people on dating apps but tend to avoid making plans to meet because I am nervous about reactions to my weight. Should I wait to lose weight or can I start dating now?
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I am 31, recently out of a 12-year relationship (and three-year marriage), and am at a loss. While I was chubby when my ex and I started dating, my weight became an issue of contention near the end of my marriage. I’d like to have kids, and would therefore like to start dating, maybe find someone to have a family with. I feel short of time given that I spent all of my 20s in a relationship that didn’t work out in that way. I am clinically obese though I’ve been told that I am attractive and carry it well. Should I wait until I lose the approximately 30 pounds that I need to lose to be at a normal weight, or can I realistically date now? I know this is a strange question and somewhat individual but while I sometimes chat with people on dating apps like Tinder or OKCupid (my pics are recent and accurate, though flattering), I tend to dodge out before making plans to meet because I am nervous about reactions to my weight. carry it wellとdodge outの意味を教えてください。よろしくお願いします
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”carry it well” 「（肥満の割には自分のシルエットを）よく保っている」 "dodge out" 「（自分の体形を露呈することに及び腰になって相手を）避ける／（相手から）逃れる」 だと思います。
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