Helping My Mom Find Companionship

  • My father passed away over 10 years ago and my mother has been single since then. She dated a man briefly but ended the relationship due to his excessive drinking. Although my mom has many friends and hobbies, she often feels like a third wheel when hanging out with her married friends. I want to help her find consistent companionship, but she refuses to try online dating. Are there any other ways I can assist her?
  • After my father's passing, my mother entered a brief relationship that ended because the man had an alcohol problem. Despite her active social life, my mom sometimes feels left out when she spends time with her friends and their partners. I want to support her in finding a partner, but she is resistant to the idea of online dating. How else can I help her in this situation?
  • It has been more than a decade since my father passed away, leaving my mother single. She had a short-lived relationship a few years ago, which ended due to the man's alcohol abuse. Although my mom is funny, intelligent, and beautiful, she often feels like a third wheel when hanging out with her long-married friends. I've suggested online dating, but she is not interested. What other options can I explore to assist her in finding companionship?
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My father passed away more than 10 years ago rather suddenly. My mother dated a man for a while a few years ago, but she left him because his drinking was out of control. Her friends are all couples that have been married nearly 40 years, and she loves them, but she often feels like a third wheel (or fifth or seventh). My mom is awesome—she’s funny and intelligent and beautiful and has lots of friends and hobbies, but I know she’s missing consistent companionship (i.e. a man-friend). I keep steering her toward online dating, but she won’t bite. Aside from going to weird over-60 bars, what can I do to help her? weird over-60 barsはどのような意味でしょうか?よろしくお願いします

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