My Friend's Obsession with My Baby is Going Too Far

  • I had my daughter about six months ago. In my circle of friends I’m the only one to have a baby, so needless to say she gets a lot of attention.
  • One friend in particular seems to be a little obsessed with her, and it kind of freaks me and my husband out. She’s constantly buying things for her, referring to herself as her godmother, and asks for pictures of her throughout the day.
  • Recently, she even asked if she can wear my baby carrier so people will think she’s her child! While I appreciate her support, this obsession is going too far.
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I had my daughter about six months ago. In my circle of friends I’m the only to have a baby, so needless to say she gets a lot of attention. One friend in particular seems to be a little obsessed with her, and it kind of freaks me and my husband out. She’s constantly buying things for her, referring to herself as her godmother (she’s not, my sister is, and she knows it). She asks for pictures of her throughout the day to help get her through work, and mentions that while she’s looking for a new job she would never relocate because she wants to be near my daughter. And recently when she comes over, she asks if she can wear her in my baby carrier so people will think she’s her child! I appreciate that she is so supportive of us, and I know most people find their childless friends grow absent once they have a baby, but this is just a little over the top. grow absentはどのような意味でしょうか?よろしくお願いします

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 grow absentはどのような意味でしょうか?  いなくなる。  (子供のいない友達は、自分の子供がいない間は周りにいるが、自分の子供ができると)いなくなる、ということでしょう。





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