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My fiancé and I are getting married next year and plan on inviting only close friends and family. My fiancé’s parents and my father are very generously splitting the costs of the wedding, and I asked them if they wanted to add a few people to our guest list as a token of my gratitude (they’re very reasonable people). I’m fine with everyone they added (about 10 people) except for my fiancé’s aunt. I’ve only met her twice, but according to my future in-laws, she’s a compulsive thief. His family hides their purses and valuables when she is invited to events. She was recently fired for stealing from her co-worker. Based on her past behavior, I think it’s likely she’ll steal from guests during the reception or even from the gift table. Is there a way I can gently push back on the request to include this person? push back on the requestは「リクエストを先送りする」でしょうか?よろしくお願いします


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確かに "push back" には "delay" つまり「先送りする」という意味があります。 しかしこの文面のコンテキストにおいて、それはあてはまりません。この文脈における "push back" は、"dismiss/deny/refuse" といった意味を持ちます。つまり「退ける/却下する/断る」です。 話者は婚礼費用を負担してくれる新郎の両親に対し、そのお礼として招待客リストに彼らが推薦する人の名前を数名加えるよう要望しましたが、その中に盗癖のある義理の叔母が入っていました。そこで、ことを荒立てることなく(gently)この叔母を要望したリストから外す(push back on the request to include this person)ことはできないだろうか、と相談しています。





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