Living with a Partner on Disability

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  • Discover what it means to be in a relationship with a partner with disabilities, specifically fibromyalgia and rheumatoid arthritis.
  • Learn about the challenges faced when living with a partner on disability and how it can affect intimacy and everyday life.
  • Explore the emotional impact of supporting a disabled partner and the importance of self-care in the process.
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I have been in a relationship for four years. My partner has fibromyalgia and rheumatoid arthritis. When we met, he had just found out. He was still active, working, and we had sex regularly. Fast forward: He is now on disability, not working at all, we rarely sleep together and he never leaves the house. I love him still, but I didn't realize how hard this would be. I know he has a lot to cope with, but it's hard on me as well. on disabilityはどのような意味でしょうか?あと、it's hard on meはit's hard for meとどう違うのでしょうか?よろしくお願いします

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1。on disabilityはどのような意味でしょうか? これは、下記のように、Social Security Disability Insurance 社会保障制度身体障害者保険、ないし補助金を受け取る状態に(ある)」ということでしょう。  https://www.ssa.gov/disability/ 2。あと、it's hard on meはit's hard for meとどう違うのでしょうか?    on の意味の基本は「密着している」ということですから、it's hard on me の方が、it's hard for me よりも直接的で、切実な感じがします。

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