My Complicated Relationship: From FWB to Violence and Court

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  • I caught feelings for him, but our relationship was more like friends with benefits. We ended things badly, with him being violent and me expressing my concerns. Months later, he broke into my place and destroyed some of my personal property. We went to court, but he walked free. Despite everything, I still miss him and wonder if he can change.
  • I catfished him by sending a message pretending to be someone else. He suspected it was me and I stopped replying. Recently, we coincidentally saw each other at a place we used to go to. I still have feelings for him, even though he can't be trusted.
  • By getting off on the charges, I mean that he was acquitted or found not guilty of the legal charges against him.
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I dated this guy. We were more FWB than anything else. I caught feelings for him. Sometimes they felt mutual. We ended things rather badly. He was violent once but seemed to be remorseful in messages to me months after. I expressed my concerns even though I really missed him. Then he broke in to my place and destroyed some personal property. We spent months in court. He basically walked free. I still stupidly think about him, hoping he would come without the violent tendencies. About a month ago, I sent him a message by catfishing him. He suspected it was me, and I stopped replying. Then just last week we were both at a place we frequented often at the same time. Rare, since it’s at least an hour away from where we reside. I know he saw me as he flashed his lights as I rode by. Later on, he had no choice but to pass me as I was in the bike lane. I still for whatever reason miss him. We used to have a lot of fun together, but he cannot be trusted. I admit I did a lot of dishonest things to get to know his real story—which is complicated, but I know they are really only together for their young kid. Did I mention she testified to help him get off on the charges? I guess what I am asking, do I send him a truthful message baring all and see where it goes? 1　I caught feelings for him.はどのような意味でしょうか？ 2　I sent him a message by catfishing him.「彼になりすまして彼にメッセージを送った」？？でしょうか？ 3　get off on the chargesはどのような意味でしょうか？ 4　baring all and see where it goesはどのような意味でしょうか？ 以上、よろしくお願いします

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１。　I caught feelings for him.はどのような意味でしょうか？ 「彼と恋に落ちた」でしょう。「別にその気はなかったのに急に」とか「あってはならないことなんだが」と言う含みがあり「事もあろうに」と言う感じです。　 　https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=catch%20feelings ２。　I sent him a message by catfishing him.「彼になりすまして彼にメッセージを送った」？？でしょうか？ そうだと思います。しかし「彼になりすました」のでは彼にはすぐばれてしまいます、少なくとも「自分の正体を隠して」でしょう。 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catfishing ３。get off on the chargesはどのような意味でしょうか？ 　この際の charge は、下記の名詞の７「罪状」でしょう。 　https://eow.alc.co.jp/search?q=charge 　その罪にはならないと無罪釈放になった。たぶんDVで逮捕されたが彼女の証言で無罪になったと言うことだと思います。 ４。baring all and see where it goesはどのような意味でしょうか？ 　全てを裸にして、どこに行くかを見る　＞　万事を暴露して、結果がどうなるかを見る

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