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2019/01/23 22:52

My husband and I have been married more than 20 years. Once in a while, he'll stop being affectionate and ceases talking to me. Obviously, he is upset. He holds it together for our children, but I get the serious cold shoulder. holds it togetherはどのような意味でしょうか？よろしくお願いします

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2019/01/24 00:29 回答No.2

取り乱した気持ち(upset)を、子供達のために「我慢している」のです。 together は、心と体がバラバラにならないように抑えているニュアンスです。

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