Difficult In-Laws and a Perceived Slight: Navigating a Challenging Relationship
- After 15 years of building a relationship with difficult in-laws, a perceived slight has now caused tension and distance between me and my mother-in-law.
- Despite my efforts to maintain a good relationship, recent personal struggles and a misunderstanding have led to my mother-in-law giving me and my husband the cold shoulder.
- It is important for my husband to have a good relationship with his parents, and I thought we had achieved that until this incident occurred.
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After 15 years of working hard to build a good relationship with difficult in-laws -- because it was important to my husband -- I thought we had gotten to a pretty good place. After hitting some tough personal times, and after a perceived slight on my part, my mother-in-law is now giving me AND my husband the cold shoulder. It was part misunderstanding, part overstepping on their part -- in my opinion -- but I didn't react well. it was important to my husbandのところは、it was important for my husbandでも良いのでしょうか？よくこのようなケースでtoかforかで迷うのですが、どちらを使うか見分ける方法はあるでしょうか？ あと、perceived slightの意味を教えてください。perceived slight
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１。it was important to my husbandのところは、it was important for my husbandでも良いのでしょうか？ はい。 ２。よくこのようなケースでtoかforかで迷うのですが、どちらを使うか見分ける方法はあるでしょうか？ 何が言いたいかで決まりなす。「～にとって」を利害関係のないものとすれば to 、あるとすれば for でしょう、前者だと「どうでもいいことなんだが」です。 ３、あと、perceived slightの意味を教えてください。 事実はどうであれ、私から見れば、「軽蔑に見えた」あるいは「バカにされたと思った」でしょう。
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