My Father-in-Law Sends Explicit Photos: What Should I Do?
- A woman seeks advice on how to handle her father-in-law sending explicit photos to her husband.
- She wonders if she should confront her father-in-law or take other actions.
- The importance of open communication with her husband and setting boundaries is highlighted.
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Dear Annie: I have a problem that I have never seen in your column. My 64-year-old father-in-law sends my middle-aged husband pornographic pictures. My husband and I share the same email address, and the last picture was extremely explicit. My husband does not check his email regularly. When he does, he ignores most of his father's stuff, thank heavens. I haven't deleted these emails, but I now think my father-in-law is a total creep. Is there anything I should do? I hope he sees himself in this letter. -- Offended Wife Dear Offended: Is your husband aware that his father is sending him these photos? If not, tell him. Then ask whether he wants to receive these pictures. He may not care, or he may prefer not to confront his father. Since they're meant for him, he should have the final word, although you can encourage him to tell Dad to stop. We also recommend that you open your own email account so you are not subjected to this assault on your senses. on your sensesはどのような意味でしょうか？よろしくお願いします
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"on your senses." 「あなたの感受性（感情）に」 We also recommend that you open your own email account so you are not subjected to this assault on your senses. 私たちはまた、あなあたがご自身のメールアカウントを開設することをお勧めします。そうすることであなたは、このように感情を逆なでされずに済むようになるでしょう。
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