Feeling Overwhelmed: Dealing with Depression and Anxiety in a Supportive Relationship

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  • Living with severe clinical depression and anxiety can be overwhelming, even with professional help.
  • Despite seeking support from her husband, the individual feels misunderstood and invalidated by his responses.
  • The husband's lack of empathy and dismissive remarks further hinder open communication about mental health struggles.
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どのような意味でしょうか

I suffer from very severe clinical depression and anxiety disorder. I am under a doctor’s care, but I still have times when these issues overwhelm me. Recently, my life has been more stressful than usual. I have tried to talk to my husband about my depression in the past, but he just tells me that I have a good life and I shouldn’t feel that way. I told him I don’t feel like I can talk to him about what is going on with me because of these responses. He assures me he is my biggest supporter and I can talk to him about anything. This past weekend I told my husband I was feeling very depressed, and his response was to roll his eyes and say, “What’s wrong with you now?” I told him again that these reactions are why I don’t feel like I can actually talk to him. His response was to get angry with me because I refuse to realize how good I have it. how good I have itはどのような意味でしょうか？よろしくお願いします

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　how good I have itはどのような意味でしょうか？ 　（彼の答えは、私が）いかに良いか（理解しようとしないから、と腹をたてることでした。） 　日本式に言えば「君よりもっと不幸な人が沢山いる、今の君がその人たちに比べてどんなに優雅な暮らしをしてるのか君に分かってないから僕は腹がたつのだ。

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