My Husband's Parkinson's Disease: A Rapid Decline

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  • My husband of 25 years has been diagnosed with early-onset Parkinson’s, which has been mild until recently. However, he is now rapidly declining and I am deeply upset.
  • I have spent years researching and trying to help him, but he refuses to consider any suggestions. He is barely mobile, unable to work, and susceptible to falls.
  • As his caregiver and the primary breadwinner, I feel overwhelmed and angry that he has never been willing to try things that could potentially improve his condition.
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どのような意味でしょうか

My husband of 25 years was diagnosed with early-onset Parkinson’s shortly after we married. He has been lucky until recently and the disease has been mild. However, he’s now rapidly declining. I am a research fanatic (and a bit bossy, I admit) and have spent years reading everything I can get my hands on, but no matter what I discover (the benefits of PT! tai chi!) he pooh-poohs it and won’t even discuss it with his doctor. Now, at the point where he is barely mobile, unable to work, and susceptible to falls, I find myself deeply upset that he has never been willing to try the (proven, not wacky) things that might help him. I work full-time (to support the family); we have three kids. I would never leave him, but I feel like a big boulder is hurtling down the hill at me. And I am so, so angry. Not at the unfairness of it all, but at him, for not even trying. What’s coming is not good, so I need to figure out how to let go of all this bitterness. ここでのWhat’s comingはどのような意味でしょうか?よろしくお願いします

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"What's coming" 「次に来ること/待ち伏せていること」だと思います。 https://eow.alc.co.jp/search?q=what%27s+coming 恐らく話者は、もうすぐ(いずれ)夫は死を迎えることを意識していて、それが現実となる前に、彼に対する敵意(怒り)を取り除きたい(let go of all this bitterness)と思っているのでしょう。

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