Why Does My Husband's Close-knit Family Freak Me Out?
- I feel pressure to attend my husband's frequent family gatherings, but I decline due to my introverted upbringing and past conflicts with my own family.
- I panic when I find out that my parents-in-law are moving across the street from us, as I prefer a less close-knit family dynamic.
- My husband has informed his parents that they should not expect frequent visits or help with home projects.
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My husband is extraordinarily close with his siblings and parents. They visit with one another at least four times a week. I feel pressure to attend, but usually politely decline. This prompts questions about my whereabouts and "we never see you" comments. Frankly, so much sweet togetherness freaks me out. I grew up in a small, introverted family with few gatherings and a whole lot of conflict. My parents moved us 4,000 miles away when the local family got to be too much. I have a sound relationship with my parents now and am perfectly happy with bimonthly visits. So you can imagine my panic when I learned my parents-in-law are moving across the street from us. My husband isn't thrilled, but acknowledges the home suits their needs. He has told them to keep their expectations low in terms of visits and home projects. when the local family got to be too muchとはどのような意味でしょうか？ home projectsとは何のことでしょうか？よろしくお願いします
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１。when the local family got to be too muchとはどのような意味でしょうか？ 地域の家族（関係）がややこしくなり過ぎた時、狭っ苦しい小さな場所にひしめいている親族間の人間関係が煩雑になり過ぎた時 ２。home projectsとは何のことでしょうか？ 家の保全に関する諸計画、例えば、電球が切れた、屋根が漏る、ドアが軋む、蟻が増えた、便器が詰まった、テレビが壊れた、から修繕に来いなどでしょう。
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