Is Being Hard to Get the Secret to Dating?

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  • Is being mysterious and hard to get the key to successful dating?
  • Many people believe that playing hard to get makes you more attractive
  • But is it worth sacrificing your authenticity and feminist values?
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I’m a pretty direct woman who has wanted to reject “the rules.” I’ve tried to be vulnerable and real with men that I’m interested in, and more often than not, this sends them running for the hills. I’m starting to think that there is something to this whole, like, mysterious being-hard-to-get thing. But it’s just not who I am. Even if I did play this game, I would still have a body of work anyone could easily Google about being a feminist, sex-positive woman. Kinda takes the mystery out. 最後のKinda takes the mystery out.の意味をよろしくお願いします

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"Kinda takes the mystery out." = "(It) kind of takes the mystery out." 「これで謎の一部が取り払われる/これで謎の一部分の説明がつく。」 https://eow.alc.co.jp/search?q=kind+of ここで「謎」とは、話者がいくら弱くて傷つきやすい女性の側面をさらけ出した(弱い女性を演じた)ところで(I've tried to be vulnerable and real)、相手の男は皆逃げ出して行ってしまう(this sends them running for the hills)ということです。 ではなぜそうなってしまうのか? それは彼女自身の問題というよりは(But it's just not who I am)、グーグル検索すれば彼女が男女同権主義者だということがすぐに分かってしまう、彼女が残してきた一連の作品の存在のせいなのです。

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