How to Handle Attending a Wedding When You Disapprove of the Engaged Friend
- Learn how to handle attending a wedding when you disapprove of the engaged friend. Understand the history between the bride and groom, and the overall behavior of the engaged friend. Consider sitting out the wedding if it doesn't put you in a celebratory mood. Communicate your decision to your mutual friend in a respectful and non-judgmental way.
- Attending a wedding when you disapprove of the engaged friend can be challenging. Take into account the history between the couple and the engaged friend's behavior. If you feel uncomfortable and it will affect your mood, it might be best to sit this one out. Discuss your decision with your mutual friend in a tactful manner.
- If you're faced with attending a wedding where you disapprove of the engaged friend, consider your own feelings and the couple's history. If you don't feel celebratory and it will only bring you discomfort, it's okay to decline the invitation. Communicate your decision to your mutual friend respectfully and without criticizing the engaged friend.
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I have a college friend who is getting married this fall. (I found out about the engagement from a mutual friend and a subsequent email blast from the engaged friend.) I haven’t really spoken to Engaged Friend in the last year due to a history of minor slights and her overall sense of entitlement. (Honestly, I’ve always known she had the potential to be an awful person, but I disregarded it because I wasn’t on the receiving end.) At the wedding, I’d be one of the few attendees who knows that the groom was engaged to another woman two years ago and used Engaged Friend as a rebound. Knowing their history and Engaged Friend’s general bad behavior doesn’t put me in a celebratory mood. I don’t mind just sitting this one out, but I am concerned I will lose our mutual friend if I don’t attend. (She asked me to coordinate flights and hotel arrangements for the wedding weekend.) I don’t know how to explain I’m not attending without speaking ill of Engaged Friend, and I’m really just over the situation. over the situationはどのような意味でしょうか？よろしくお願いします
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"I'm really just over the situation." 「私は今、まさにその状況の中に置かれている。」 ではないでしょうか。 I don’t know how to explain I’m not attending without speaking ill of Engaged Friend, and I’m really just over the situation. 私が（結婚式に）参列しないことを、婚約者を誹謗せずに（共通の友人に）どう釈明したらよいのかわかりません。そして私は今、まさにその状況下にあるのです。
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over the situationはどのような意味でしょうか？ これだけでは「（この状況の）上方に」あるのか「（この状況の）終わりに」あるのかわかりませんが、決め手はすぐ前の just ではないかと思います。 新婦の悪口を噴出させない所までやっと漕ぎつけた（コテンパンにやっつけてやりたい状況が終わった）ばかりで、祝辞などにはまだ程遠い、ということでしょう。
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