18-Year-Old's Decision for a Boob Job: Irresponsible Parenting?
- My wife's niece, a high school senior, wants to get a boob job before going to college to attract boys. Her mother and aunt, who both had boob jobs themselves, are supportive and willing to help pay for it. However, I believe being supportive of an 18-year-old making such a major decision for what I think is the wrong reason is irresponsible parenting.
- A high school senior wants to get a boob job before college to increase her attractiveness to boys. Her mother and aunt, who had boob jobs themselves, are supportive and willing to contribute financially. However, I question the responsibility of encouraging an 18-year-old to make such a significant decision for what I believe is the wrong motivation.
- Is it irresponsible parenting to be supportive of an 18-year-old's decision to get a boob job for the purpose of attracting boys? Despite her mother and aunt's support, I have concerns about the maturity and reasoning behind such a major decision at such a young age.
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My wife's niece, a high school senior, is a beautiful girl with an excellent, well-proportioned figure. Like many girls her age, she's narcissistic and obsessed with her looks, and constantly posting pictures of herself on social media. She's off to college in a few months, and in order to ensure she's attractive to boys, wants to get a boob job. She works in a clothing store and has saved toward the cost. Her mother and aunt are supportive and willing to help her pay for it. Their logic is, they both had boob jobs. However, they had theirs done well into their 40s, after their children were born and as clear-thinking adults. I feel being supportive of an 18-year-old making such a major decision for what I think is the wrong reason is irresponsible parenting. I feel being supportive of an 18-year-old making such a major decision for what I think is the wrong reason is irresponsible parenting.のwhat I think is the wrong reason is irresponsible parenting.はisは2回出てきて文法的によくわからないので解説と和訳をよろしくお願いします
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１。解説 主文 主語：I 私は 動詞：feel 感じる 副文 主語： being supportive of an 18-year-old making such a major decision for what I think is the wrong reason 私が間違っていると考える理由で、１８歳のものがする重大な決心を支持するのは 動詞：is である 補語：irresponsible parenting. 無責任な子育て ２。 １８歳の少女が、私が間違っていると考える理由でこのような重大な決心をするのに賛成するのは、親として無責任だと思う。
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