I Cheated on My Wonderful Husband: Shouldn't I Feel Guilty?
- I have a wonderful husband of 11 years and three children. Carl is attentive, caring and always puts the needs of our family first. However, I cheated on him while I was on vacation.
- I started flirting innocently, but it escalated into something more. I not only didn't feel guilty, but I did it again and even sent revealing photos and a graphic video to the other person. Now, I want to understand why I am cheating on such a wonderful husband and how to stop before it's too late.
- I fear that if my husband finds out, I will lose him. Please give me advice on how to deal with this situation and prevent further damage to my marriage.
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I have a flash for you.
DEAR ABBY: I have a wonderful husband of 11 years and three children. Carl is attentive, caring and always puts the needs of our family first. You could say he is everyone's dream husband. Long story short, I cheated on him while I was on vacation. It started as innocent flirtation, but then it went further. When Brad kissed me, I knew it wasn't going to stop there. Afterward, I not only didn't feel guilty, I did it again. I have been quietly communicating with Brad and sent him revealing photos and a graphic video of myself. He loved it, and we plan to meet again soon. Please help me understand why I am cheating on such a wonderful husband. Shouldn't I feel guilty? What can I do to stop this before it gets out of control and Carl finds out? I really don't want to lose him. -- DON'T FEEL GUILTY DEAR DON'T FEEL GUILTY: I have a flash for you. This fling is already out of control. I have a flash for you.は「あなたに対してひらめきがある。」ということでしょうか？よろしくお願いします
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I have a flash for you.は「あなたに対してひらめきがある。」ということでしょうか？ これは、下記の名詞の５「（ニュースなどの）速報） news flash の略です。 https://eow.alc.co.jp/search?q=flash （あなたはまだお気付きではないようだが）ニュース速報を一つ、（もうこれは手がつけられない事態ですよ） という意味です。
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