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彼にしてみれば、長い間頻繁にメールをやり取りしていて、そのメールであなたはその気があるようなことを沢山書いてきたのでしょう。彼も書いているように人の気持ちをもてあそんでいる感じがしました。英語があまりわからないようですが、それなら自分でできる範囲のシンプルで正確な言葉で伝えればいいと思います。無理してbabyとか使うから誤解が生じます。と、いうか、その状況を結構楽しんでいるようにさえ感じます。「私ってもてるわ」みたいな。会う気がないのならはっきりと「ペンパル」だけの関係を望んでいると言うべきです。会いたいと思うのなら時間を作る努力をして会うべきです。そして背伸びしないで普通のメールを書いてください。その気がないのに思わせぶりなこと書かないことですね。彼は直接的にあなたを非難する代わりに「君がもしも僕の立場だったら、これこれこう思うだろ?」と自分の気持ちを伝えています。嫌な文とおっしゃいますが、自分の蒔いた種です。

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