Should I Tell My Brother About What Happened at the Party?
- My friend confided in me that she gave a guy a blowjob at a party and then lent the water bottle she used to my older brother as a prank.
- I'm unsure whether I should tell my brother about what happened because it will mortify him and make him feel sexually violated.
- I'm also curious about why the author refers to this incident as an 'ordeal' and what 'borderline sexually violated' means.
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This is kind of a weird story. My older brother was at a party, and my friend was there too. She confided in me later the next day that, while at the party, she gave a guy a blowjob, used a water bottle for spit/to wash it down, and then lent the water bottle to my older brother as a prank. She finds the whole ordeal hilarious, and she said I could tell him and that she doesn't care. But should I? On one hand, if I do, he will be MORTIFIED. It will really, REALLY bother him. I know if it were reverse, I'd probably start crying. I'd feel borderline sexually violated. 筆者はなぜordeal（試練）と言っているのでしょうか？borderline sexually violatedの意味もよろしくお願いします
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１。筆者はなぜordeal（試練）と言っているのでしょうか？ ordeal は、下記のように、危険、痛み、苦しみを伴う「判決」です。ここては話を聞かせて反応を見る、一種のテストと、見ているからでしょう。 https://ejje.weblio.jp/content/ordeal ２。borderline sexually violatedの意味もよろしくお願いします 性的に乱暴された境界線（＝強姦されたも同様）という意味です。 borderline の後に形容詞や過去分取が来れば「～すれすれ」「～同様』という意味になります。borderline crazy 「気狂い同様」 https://eow.alc.co.jp/search?q=borderline
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