My Husband's Attached Belongings: A Constant Battle
- My husband's attachment to his parents' decaying belongings has become a constant battle in our home. Despite my efforts to clear out the house and make necessary renovations, he refuses to let go of these items.
- Despite seeking counseling and suggesting a de-clutter specialist, my husband remains unwilling to part with his parents' decaying belongings. The situation has escalated to the point where neighbors have filed complaints with the county, urging us to get rid of the stuff.
- Despite a promise made before I moved in, my husband's attachment to his parents' decaying belongings has caused ongoing conflicts in our home. Attempts at counseling and hiring a de-clutter specialist have been unsuccessful, and we are now facing complaints from neighbors who want us to remove the items.
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My husband bought his parents' home almost 20 years ago. Unfortunately, he is attached to the decaying belongings left by his parents and other relatives that lived in the house. He promised me before I moved in that we would start clearing out the house and make the overdue and necessary renovations. Over the years I have tried to understand his attachments; I've sought counseling for us, and tried to get him to talk with a de-clutter specialist. He will have none of it. I have done what I can to clear it out, but it has been a constant battle. Last summer, neighbors filed complaints about our home with the county. We were told that our job was to get rid of the stuff! We were supposed to meet with a contractor next weekend. ここでのcontractorは平たく言うとどのような人でしょうか？よろしくお願いします
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