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- 質問者の婚約者の母親は、家の名義に質問者の名前を入れることや、質問者の婚約者が自分の母親との関係に適切な範囲を設定することについての意味を教えてください。
- 質問者の婚約者の母親は、結婚の進展を見極めるために、家の名義に質問者の名前を入れることを待つことや、質問者の婚約者が自分の母親との関係に適切な範囲を設定することについての意味を教えてください。
- 質問者の婚約者の母親は、結婚の進展を見極めるために、家の名義に質問者の名前を入れることを待つことや、質問者の婚約者が自分の母親との関係に適切な範囲を設定することについての意味を教えてください。
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My fiancee bought a house last year, with a sizable down payment provided by her mother. A few weeks ago, my future mother-in-law expressed the sentiment that we should wait to put my name on the deed of the house in order "to see how the marriage works out." I understand that she wants to protect her investment, but we have decided to combine all of our finances in an effort to show unity, as well as making house-related issues easier for me to handle. I feel like she thinks I'm a gold digger. To make matters worse, my fiancee has trouble establishing boundaries with her mother and did not inform her mother of our plans to combine finances until the other day. put my name on the deed of the houseとestablishing boundaries with her mother の意味を教えてください。よろしくお願いします
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No.1 です。 訂正です。"My fiancée" となっているので、まだ婚約の段階でしたね。まだ正式には話者の「妻」にはなっていません。 新居の頭金を支払った、婚約者（話者の将来の妻）の母親が、家の共有名義に、まだ結婚もしていない話者の名前を入れたくないというのは、当然かもしれませんね。
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"put my name on the deed of the house" 「家の権利証に自分の名を連ねる」即ち、妻と自分（話者）の共有財産として家を登記する。 "establishing boundaries with her mother" 「（彼女自身と）彼女の母親との間に分別を設ける（距離を置く）」 ⇒ つまり、話者の妻は、彼女の母親からまだきちんと親離れできていない、ということだと思います。
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