I'm Married to a Man Who Doesn't Remember Me or Our Kids
- Four years ago, my husband was struck down by brain cancer and suffered brain trauma. I've been caring for him at home, dealing with hospital and insurance issues.
- My husband's condition is like being married to a 41-year-old Alzheimer's patient. He doesn't remember me, our marriage, or our kids.
- I'm trying to place him in a nursing home, but there are waiting lists. Meanwhile, I've met a man who is kind and supportive.
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Four years ago, my sweet and loving husband, the awesome father of our three children, was struck down by brain cancer and suffered brain trauma following emergency surgery. I’ve cared for him at home, dealing with the hassles of hospitals, insurance, family drama (his parents blame me for his health issues). He will never recover and he is declining. It is like being married to a 41-year-old Alzheimer’s patient. He does not remember me, our long marriage, or our kids. I’m trying to place him in a nursing home, but there are waiting lists. About a year ago, I met a man who was genuine and kind. As the friendship grew, he began helping with my kids, even helping my husband by playing music and visiting with him. My boyfriend knows I am committed to giving my husband the care he deserves and respects that this is a package deal. that this is a package dealはthatの後に完全な文がきていて変な感じがするのですが、どのような役割のthatでしょうか？よろしくお願いします
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> どのような役割のthatでしょうか？ ⇒ 接続詞としての "that" だと思います。 My boyfriend knows (that) I am committed to giving my husband the care he deserves and (he) respects "that" this is a package deal. 私のボーイフレンドは、しかるべき世話を夫に捧げるという私の意志を理解しており、私たちの関係がそれを包含したものであることを尊重している。
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