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意味は#1さんがお書きになっているとおりです。つまり「could not」はどうでもいいです。要は「decided」。彼は、あなたとの仲をあきらめたと「決めて」しまっています。 理由は、彼が精神的に弱いゆえに、そばにいてくれる女性を求めているからです。彼の言い分によればですが、「あなたがそばにいて彼をきちんと見てくれないことには、関係を続けるのは無理だ」と言っているわけなので、あくまでも彼に言わせればですが、メールをおやすみするのは、とんだ逆効果なわけです。ここまでが和訳に関する私の回答です。 ただし、恋愛相談を兼ねたご質問とのことなので申しますと、どのみち今は彼に何を言っても無駄だと思います。何をどう言おうと彼は裏目裏目に解釈するでしょう。唯一、よりをもどす方法があるとしたら、今すぐに彼のもとへ駆けつけて、ずっとずっと彼だけを見つめ続けることだと思います。 しかし私はそれをおすすめしません。なぜなら、そんなことを続けていたら、今度はあなたのほうがダメになってしまうと思うからです。何やら人一倍に繊細な男性のようですし、あなたの手に負える人ではないと感じます。彼もそれをわかっていて、これ以上続けていてもお互いに傷つくだけだと悟り、大人として身を引いたわけです。彼が言うように、あなたはあなたで、より相応しい人生を歩むといいでしょう。ここはご縁がなかったと思って彼との仲は諦めることです。本当にご縁があれば、いつかまた、彼がもっと強くなった時に偶然にでも再会できますよ。そういうものです。それまでに、あなたもじっくりと時間をかけて、本当の意味での大人になればいいのです。 以上、日本人オバサンからの意見ですが、ご参考までに。

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