(I also write English translated by Google.)
I will answer in Japanese that seems easy to translate.
First of all, I do not understand your question clearly in your Japanese.
So I will answer while guessing the content of your question.
It is difficult even in high school life in Japan.
Even if you behave like "Kyon", it is rare for people around you to behave like anime.
So I think there is no difference between Japan and China.
If I explain in more detail in Japanese, I think you can not understand.
I also understand English a little, so you may ask in English again. Also, I do not understand Chinese. Sorry.