Bisexual Woman's Confusing Encounter with a Colleague
- A bisexual woman in her early 30s shares her confusing experience with a female colleague she developed a strong connection with.
- They started spending a lot of time together, snuggling up on the couch for TV marathons, and cuddling in bed, but never had sex.
- Suddenly, the colleague withdrew and avoided spending time alone, leaving the woman confused and wondering if their physical interactions were the cause.
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I’m a bisexual woman in my early-30s. About a year and a half ago, I met a woman at work and we really hit it off. It never occurred to me she might be attracted to women also. Colleagues told me she’d never dated and was not interested in doing so. As we spent more time together, things took a turn for the physical. It started with snuggling up on the couch for TV marathons, and then she started coming over most days after work to cuddle with me on my bed. We never had sex, but we were very physical with one another. I could tell it turned her on, but tried to be respectful of her boundaries, as I knew she was inexperienced and possibly conflicted, so we never had sex. Then she suddenly withdrew. As soon as I tried talking to her and asking if the sudden distance was the result of our sexually charged interactions, she both vehemently denied it and simultaneously made up excuses to not spend time alone together anymore. snuggling up on the couch for TV marathonsとsexually charged interactionsの意味を教えていください。よろしくお願いします
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１。snuggling up on the couch for TV marathonsの意味を教えていください。 ソファの上で抱き合って、テレビ番組を次から次へと見る ２。sexually charged interactionsの意味を教えていください。 性的に充電した交換：（性交はしていないと繰り返しているので、性交以外の）性的な興奮を起こす付き合い、でしょう。
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